In Vex King’s latest book, “Things No One Taught Us About Love,” he is challenging some of these ideas by calling upon us to question our understanding of love and of the work we need to put in to both our own sense of self-worth and our relationships.
According to Vex King, connection is not just something that we feel or don’t feel in our long-term, committed relationships. Rather, it’s about putting the work in to sustain what you have, intentionally closing any distance and making a conscious choice to be together and cultivate closeness.